You’ve Got Your Hands Full

The other day I went to the grocery store with all 5 of my kids. I don’t do this often because the moment we enter those automatic doors my children think that’s their cue to start acting like little crazy assholes kids. It is impossible for me to take all 5 kids there and not have them act up. I don’t know why they think it’s a green light to go ahead and do cartwheels down aisle 4 but for some reason they do. All I can think to myself is bring on the “You’ve got your hands full” comments.

You've got your hands full
You’ve got your hands full- Mommin’ With Humor

 

People pass us and it’s always funny to see their reactions. I get a lot of dirty looks, some glazed over looks and once in a while, I will get a sweet smile or chuckle. When I make eye contact with the judgey prospector I will get the always dreaded comment, “You’ve got your hands full”. This saying didn’t always bother me but after years of hearing this, I am finally at my end of friendly behavior. I used to apologize or correct my child’s behavior but now it’s a whole different story. When you tell me I have my hands full I will absolutely NOT correct my children and I will probably say a sly comment that puts you back in your place. Some of my favorite sayings are “yes, I do thank you for reminding me” or “Do I? I didn’t notice”(with an “eff off look” all over my face). My favorite is “can you believe I’m having number 6 in a few short months” (I do a fake loud laugh as I touch my non-pregnant fluffy belly). I have recently started saying “Ya I know I have a lot of kids, you should see my laundry room!”

It’s mostly dear sweet elderly people saying  “You’ve got your hands full” Most times they will turn to their spouse or whoever they’re with and whisper something quietly about my obnoxious children. I normally can’t hear because I’m being pulled and gnawed on like a piece of meat in a lions den. It’s pretty much a huge bat shit crazy show to watch. Once, my son decided to pee in the cereal aisle. I have no idea why he decided to do that but I’m guessing the 3 years old just had to go, but I certainly could have used the help instead of the comments. I won’t lie, I did laugh a little when I heard “clean up on aisle 6” over the intercom. My most embarrassing moments are when my kids decide to pick up mommies special ‘bathroom tools’ (tampons) and laugh hysterically at them, I will never understand why or how a tampon can be so funny. Trust me when I tell you, we are a freaking train wreck that you can’t look away from.

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I asked some awesome parents on my Instagram and facebook for some  advice on what to say. If you are ever in this situation here is some hilarious, yet, good comebacks you can use…

Kathie O’Leary : You’re so observant, are you offering sitting services or just being a Captain Obvious?

Bethany Bauer : Yep, and a full heart Or if I’m in a bad mood….Only if you can’t handle it

Lorraine Cyr : I sure don’t need a gym membership!

tchelsie : My Hands and my heart

dellered : I just say, “Nah, I mostly ignore them” sadly it’s barely sarcasm.

ginaw1127 : I wouldn’t have it any other way

lindseypalmer11 : I have more at home

lizoncall : I simply say, yep!

nicki8902 : Said Every Mom Ever…

amberlawlor : I’m about to get my hands full!

kaileeandersen : I know.. Help me out

tkjar33 : Ya. I love it though! They’re great kids.

tarabfisch11 : And I’m having another

atippets : I get this every single time I leave the house. With 4 boys and twins, we are quite the circus. I sure do like the comments of encouragement and praise over the typical “you’ve got your hands full” or “better you than me” comments.

correamommy : Wouldn’t have it any other way! You may say I have my hands full, but I say I am blessed!!

bbymks5 : Yep!! You take this one!

sheyde : Thanks for noticing???

tamseyb : “Yup, great entertainment for the bored staring type.” Said this one today at a real peach of a lady.

sometimesstefanie : I just realized I say this EVERY time – “yep, it’s quite the party over here!” But really I wish I would say something like “yep, lots of penises to deal with.” Usually, when you talk about the genital area to a stranger, it shuts them up real quick cause they don’t know how to respond

Here are a few tips I can give you: 

  1. Don’t bring your kids to the grocery store! If you can leave those crazies behind, DO IT!! Take a little hour vacation to the store alone. Hit up that favorite drink stop first and then go shopping. I know I will never take a trip to the store alone for granted. Or even a trip to the bathroom alone would be the best gift ever!
  2. Don’t mind the people staring! Let them stare. Kids will be kids and the people who are judging are the ones who  A. Don’t have kids or B. Forgot what it’s like. This is the season of life you’re in. Live it up. Let your kids go crazy in the grocery store. They are only kids once in a lifetime. As a kid, I loved to ride around on the carts like crazy while my mom would grocery shop. She let me do it and claimed me with pride.
  3. Keep your Head up and walk away with pride! I remember one time my niece was screaming at the top of her lungs in a store. I can’t remember why but she was screaming as loud as she can. My sister picked her up and walked out of the store. It wasn’t until after she got home the cops showed up and questioned her about a possible child abduction. As my sister was carrying her screaming daughter out of the store someone called the cops and reported her stealing a child and the child was screaming .. (Hahaha) I laughed out loud for a good 20 minutes and still laugh to this day. Clearly, the cops realized what happened and quickly dismissed that report. Kids are unpredictable at times so when they get crazy. Keep your head up and walk with pride. Every mom in that store knows exactly what you’re going through. We got your back!

Anytime I am at the store and see a mom with wild children, I will NEVER judge because I know how that mom feels. We should all start offering a helping hand rather than a rude, sly  comment. By telling me I have my hands full,  makes me feel as if I can’t contain my children. That is farthest from the truth. I can contain those monsters, I am just picking my battles AND the grocery store ISN’T one of them!

xoxo,

Chels

 

6 thoughts on “You’ve Got Your Hands Full

  1. Just come back with “Yah, they’re on sale, buy one get one free on aisle 12…I just couldn’t resist!”

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